You’re Not Broken. You’re Disconnected.
Underneath the conditioning, the emotional baggage, and the years of pretending to be someone you’re not — the real you is still there. Waiting.
We don’t fix people. We help you to reconnect to the real you.
The Uncomfortable Truth
There is a reason you feel stuck in life, and it is not what you think.
What is really holding you back is not what you lack. It is what you are carrying.You were not born feeling this way. But then life happened. Hurt added a layer. Disappointment added another. Other people’s opinions, fears, and old wounds — each one covered up a bit more of who you really are.
You have probably tried to fix this before. The affirmations, the self-help books, the retreats that felt great for a week and then faded. Maybe even therapy that helped you understand the problem but didn’t shift it. Because fixing does not work.What works is to reconnect with who you truly are.
What We Do Differently
We have identified nine invisible blocks that keep most people stuck. They are not character flaws. They are layers — survival strategies you developed over a lifetime that are no longer serving you.
Using our Head-to-Heart Healing™ methodology — which draws on time-tested ancient practices adapted for real modern life — we help you move emotional wounds and conditioning out of your head and into your heart, where they can actually be released.
This isn’t a spa day. It is honest, sometimes uncomfortable, always supportive inner work. We ask you to face what you have been avoiding — and then we help you to release it.
find your starting point
“Rebecoming” is the roadmap. It explains the nine blocks, our Head-to-Heart Healing™ process, and the journey back to yourself. It is a good place to start if you want to understand the work before you experience it.
Steve Roche
&
Cilla Hall
Breakfast for the Soul
Our free, fortnightly online session (Saturday or Sunday, 9–10 am) where you get a taste of our work over your morning coffee. No cost. Just you, showing up honestly.
What to expect: a guided introduction to one of the nine blocks that hold you back in life and a chance to ask questions. A nourishing way to start your weekend — for your soul, not just your body..
Finally Face It Workshop
Over 1.5 days, you will be guided through our full Head-to-Heart Healing™ process — the same methodology we use in all our work. You won’t just learn about the nine blocks. You’ll begin to feel them shift. Our workshop is held in person in London. It is designed to be intensive enough to create real movement, with enough time to work through what comes up.
Stay With It – Personal Guidance Sessions
For those who are ready to do the real work.
Our Personal Guidance Programme is a six-month commitment. Ten sessions with Cilla and Steve, spaced to give you time to process each session before going deeper. This is not therapy. It is practical, experienced guidance from people who have walked this path and can show you the way.
Finally Face It Immersive Retreat
Our retreat is for those who want to step away from the noise of daily life and fully immerse themselves in the work. No distractions. No responsibilities pulling at you. Just time and space to go deep.
This work is for you if:
You are tired of understanding your problems without actually shifting them
You have a quiet sense that the life you’re living isn’t fully yours
You are willing to feel uncomfortable in order to get free
You want the truth more than you want reassurance, even if its heavy
You are sick of your own secrets
You feel a quiet urgency to change
You are willing to be a beginner again
This work is NOT for you if:
You are looking for a quick fix
You want someone to tell you everything’s fine
You are not ready to take responsibility for your own healing
You want a hack to feel better quickly
You want someone to tell you you’re a victim
You are looking for a feel-good answer
You need to be right more than you need to be free
“The real you hasn’t gone anywhere. They’re just waiting for you to stop performing and start listening.” — Steve Roche & Cilla Hall
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